Why Do Men Wait Until They Have Divorced a Witch To Date Nice Girls?

I was always a normal person, did not smoke, drink, do drugs, honor student, not ugly at all in fact worked in modeling. Anyway, guys would always go for the witch girls with attitude, gold diggers, some of whom liked to fight and it seemed to turn the guy on. But yet I could not even get a date because it seemed the guy wanted me to pay his bills, if I could not, then he would lose interest. After 2 or 3 kids with these girls, now they want to come crawling back acting normal when they are 32 and washed up. Like any girl wants a alimony strapped baby daddy. Why don't they just get a nice girl from the get go and save themselves the heartache, and also save society the act of doing something horrible to their kids like put them through a divorce???