Ladies: What if your husband told you to plan the renewal of vows the way you wanted to?

I would.... Plan it the way you want it. Take a good look at your marriage. Most women would kill to be put in your situation, really. I know if i had the chance i would take it full force. Your wedding day really isn't about the guys anyway it's about the girls and if he ruined that for you and now he is making that up to you why not do it right. Ever since I was a little girl i had been planning my wedding, picturing it in my head. When I got married it was nothing like what I planned, nothing like it at all, we eloped. And now we are going through a divorce. I guess it was a good thing that I didn't waste my dream wedding on someone that didn't really love me. But your husband seems to love you especially if he is willing to do this for you. Hang on to that one. He sounds great.